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“My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness.” — Dalai Lama

What if I told you a Virgo secret: that if you could master one particular strand of energy, with awareness and with passion, that energetic shift could change EVERYTHING.

This quality of energy is so powerful, the Dalai Lama has made it into his religion. It is what makes a sky–like the one we are under this new moon– into applicable wisdom.

During a double Virgo Sun and Moon, it is a time when you realize all the things that are ‘wrong’. You enter the fall and suddenly realize: I don’t like my job. I don’t like my partner. I don’t like my body. And you can either do something direct about it, laced in kindness, or you can resent, demand and withdraw.

Every Virgo has this decision to make. Will I secretly harbor thoughts of negativity again and again–either internally, in my journal or in my head? Or will I adjust my attitude and be the change agent, the healer, the one who finds a solution to the dilemma that makes things better?

In the White House, it is only too easy–no matter what your philosophy is. We can judge and criticize and reject what is happening, or we can be kind.

I had a dream recently that I was mothering the President. I was just applying gentle kindness. I asked in the dream to the people around him: why do you dislike the democrats? Why can’t we just be kind to each other?

This is the religion of our most powerful Buddhist on this planet. He chose a Chinese man to be his autobiographer. He went over to the very person he should reject and resent and he chose him to practice kindness.

This New Moon’s prayer: show me kindness. Let me learn how to be sweet to those who need it most: the person who is harsh. This is a full-time job—not even slightly easy. But during this dark sky: ask yourself…

How can I be more kind to you?




  • That is a powerful message. Thank you for sharing & putting that in the forefront of my thoughts.

  • Beautiful, Debra, thanks so much !

  • Thank you for the beautiful reminder….when u said White House I started to tune out and click off the forecast because I assumed we were going into unkind territory, thank you for being kind and saying this with grace…..I applaud you.

  • This made me cry. Im not a Virgo but I’ve been feeling so edgy angry resentful. Now I understand why and what to pray for. Thank you for this piece of the puzzle. I can’t wait to start level one of the training g and to eventually learn more ??❤️

  •' Lana Mederos says:

    Thank you!
    Love this message, I’ll be following this lesson in my own life!

  •' Laura says:

    So beautiful! Thank you so much! ?

  •' Lavenia says:

    Your book “The Elements ” read in one sitting and refer back to becoming the Observer.
    You Inspire, Encourage and Lift many lightworkers.
    Many Blessings

  •' Lorraine says:

    Wonderful article.

  •' Grete says:

    Beautifully written, Debra!
    I love this!

  • Super cool Woman.. reading/listening to what you have to say is enough for me.. Thank YOU! The last 3 years (maybe 4 years) I was not working my Astrology, and now that the Grieving is not so strong I am looking at it again. A friend just changed Majik’s and my Handfasting from a DVD to a CD.. looked at it twice.. 28 & half years ago.. damn I miss her, but I know I will see her again and we will have another life together.. this one was not the only one. Thank you again for “being out there.”

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  •' Jeanne Frost says:

    Debra, This is one of the most beautiful thoughts you have shared. I think so often about the religion of Kindness and the Dalai Lama. Now, I do ask myself, how can I be just a little more kind to each person? I will keep on doing this each day as a religious practice. Thank you.

  •' Tanya Becnel says:

    Beautiful . . . Thank you for your knowledge & insights. & passionate spirit & kind heart. Wishing you continued blessings now & beyond.

  •' Lavenia McDaniel says:

    Thank you Debra for Encouraging our hearts! Purchased the The Missing Element when it was released and read on 2 sittings.
    Appreciate the reminders, your insight into the vibrational rhythm that we are moving through. You are a Blessing to so many Lightworkers.
    This reminder of KINDNESS, actually assisted in Intention for Day. Found myself praying for the acting President. Now that was a Leap for me!
    Setting intention for New Moon, Can you imagine if each one of us held that space for 30 days?

    Imagine That!


  •' ivy says:

    thank you for sharing the dali lama.
    bought & read your book, fun.
    not missing any thing.
    love your daily’s and videos. your fun to watch .
    thank you

  •' Marilyn Connors says:

    Debra, thank you for the reminder to be kind and to keep that thought in my mind each day! I always feel the kindness in you.
    Thanks for sharing..

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